wanita

WANITA......

Seorang anak laki-laki kecil bertanya kepada ibunya "Mengapa engkau menangis?"

"Kerana aku seorang wanita", kata sang ibu kepadanya.

"Aku tidak mengerti", kata anak itu.

Ibunya hanya memeluknya dan berkata, "Dan kau tak akan pernah mengerti"

Kemudian anak laki-laki itu bertanya kepada ayahnya, "Mengapa ibu suka menangis tanpa alasan?"

"Semua wanita menangis tanpa alasan", hanya itu yang dapat dikatakan oleh ayahnya.

Anak laki-laki kecil itu pun lalu tumbuh menjadi seorang laki-laki dewasa, tetap ingin tahu mengapa wanita menangis.

Akhirnya ia menghubungi Tuhan, dan ia bertanya, "Tuhan, mengapa wanita begitu mudah menangis?"

Allah berfirman:

"Ketika Aku menciptakan seorang wanita, ia diharuskan untuk menjadi seorang yang istimewa. Aku membuat bahunya cukup kuat untuk menopang dunia; namun, harus cukup lembut untuk memberikan kenyamanan "
"Aku memberikannya kekuatan dari dalam untuk mampu melahirkan anak dan menerima penolakan yang seringkali datang dari anak-anaknya "
"Aku memberinya kekerasan untuk membuatnya tetap tegar ketika orang-orang lain menyerah, dan mengasuh keluarganya dengan penderitaan dan kelelahan tanpa mengeluh "
"Aku memberinya kepekaan untuk mencintai anak-anaknya dalam setiap keadaan, bahkan ketika anaknya bersikap sangat menyakiti hatinya "
"Aku memberinya kekuatan untuk mendukung suaminya dalam kegagalannya dan melengkapi dengan tulang rusuk suaminya untuk melindungi hatinya "
"Aku memberinya kebijaksanaan untuk mengetahui bahwa seorang suami yang baik takkan pernah menyakiti isterinya, tetapi kadang menguji kekuatannya dan ketetapan hatinya untuk berada disisi suaminya tanpa ragu "
"Dan akhirnya, Aku memberinya air mata untuk dititiskan.
Ini adalah khusus miliknya untuk digunakan bilapun ia perlukan."


"Kau tahu:

"Kecantikan seorang wanita bukanlah dari pakaian yang dikenakannya, susuk yang ia tampilkan, atau bagaimana ia menyisir rambutnya."
"Kecantikan seorang wanita harus dilihat dari matanya, kerana itulah pintu hatinya – tempat dimana cinta itu ada."

bday boy

HAPPY 25TH BIRTHDAY, MR3003!!

yeayyy... my baby is now 25 huh? ohh man... im so happy to see him all grown up.. hahahha i mean, like yeah la kan.. we knew each other since we were 10.. i get to see him 'membesar' and now he's already 25!

wishing u sayang... a great year ahead... may all ur dreams come true.. :)

i love u :)

plans for his bday? nuthing today, but belanjaing him japanese buffet on saturday nite & yeah.. a bday cake that he's been waiting for from baskin robbins.. ;)

links

added two links...

1) vote for muzik muzik :

i always susah nak cari this link... i only vote for zahid here.. yeahh! being a fan kan!! so help me to vote so zahid and sarah's song [menari denganku] can be in Juara Lagu next year..

2) prettypeektures :

well, they are my fave photographers... and also my wedding photographers :)

3) my fotopages :

now, i only haf pics kat ad's bday... genting and everything else.. nanti yer? giler susah nak upload.. take alot of time.. and i dun haf time.. aceh! poyo gal!

bosan

bosan kan?

sangat la bosan...

like i haf nuthing to do.. :P

i haf mid term exam next week and one assignment to hantar.. gilos!

wish me luck..

oh by the way.. yesterday, we went to the masjid to amik signature from the pendaftar perkahwinan.. and now we dah settle that part.. kena pi JAIS soon to get the kebenaran..

meeting up with the make up artist tonite. its gonna be fun!

nak pi tgk 'dalam hati ada cinta 5' now..

what do u think of this new design? better rite? im loving it!!

69days to go!
NITE!

lonely

surrounded with ppl... but i feel so lonely..

weding preparations

hello...

wedding MAJOR preparation has now confirmed and booked.

ive sent my materials to Citra early this month... made two bajus, one for nikah, that will be white colour kebaya and bronze baju kurung moden for my reception. and bronze baju melayu for mr3003 during my recetion gak. he's gonna wear the tanjak and everything. yesterday we went to Rizalman to make bajus for mr3003 reception. for his reception, we'll be wearing blue and cream. ill be wearing baju kurung modern as well and mr3003 plak baju melayu with tanjak and everything.. one of the workers at Rizalman, called Mummy ( so sweet la dier..!! always got nice things to say..) pakaikan mr3003 the tanjak semalam, and he lookd good. at first i didnt want to tgk coz nanti tak suprise la kan.. tapi tgk gak la.. heeh..

forms are all filled up. ICs and what not dah photocopied. dah buat hiv test [for ur info, its negative] hehe and will be seeing the pendaftar nikah this Sunday to sign the forms and all... so that is settled... well almost.. hopefully takde problem.. dont think ada pun la.. ohh no, surat akuan bujang for mr3003.. wait, i hafta call him now and remind...

photographer and videographer are all confirmed.

hotel pun dah made deposit payment. decorations and the pelamins are all set. and even the bunga telur pun dah designed and tgh buat... by the way, my mom was the one who designed and buat bunga telur tu... of coz with he helped of my aunties and moms frens to buat.. 400+ pieces on her own, tak dpt la.. hihi wanted to help pun, she said.. "no no, u go up and study" heheh sabar jer la..

hantaran stuff blum la lagi, rings and everything.. that will be done in may i think..

cards dah confirmed. will start printing by next week. so i need to get everyone's mailing add soon. aiyak! that i haf not buat... plus.. i have not confirmed my guest lagi.. susah sgt kalau dah my guest limited. super limited. i hope takde yg tak puas ati.

my make up artist pun dah confirmed. he has locked my dates. so thats good. i just got to see him soon. hmmm it actually helps la buat this post... reminds me so many things yg i lupa.. i just called the make up artist, thought of seeing him today but he kat HArd ROck tonite for Kemuncak AIM.. and he'll be free as well on mr3003's reception. so yeay!

i haf to start collecting pictures for the montage to be played during the reception. ive already got someone to do it.

band for the reception is also booked. and still looking for an emcee.

my bro and his gf will be our pengapits. Lil Yana, Lisa and Danial as our flower kids. Nana and Fira for the gals yang akan kasi bunga telur to those yg merenjis tawar. bought materials for them last week and dah antar for tailoring.

hmmm thats all for now la.... gonna haf a meeting with dad, mom and bro to discuss more.

ok then. cya!

13 bedtime stories

i got this from selena's blog.. [thanks babe] just my fave thing to do. apparently it is a tag game via blogs.. all u got to do is to take 13 pics in ur room, and thats how the name came about gak la... since im not at my own place... so im just gonna do [my area] with stories.. :)

thats the entrance. shoe rack & mirror we bought in ikea. that pink box to put our keys, got that from irfah. and candle burner from OU.

rose bought at the curve. the holder at MValley for only rm10.

ma workstation. lil book that i just bought last week at tesco.
thats the result of ultrasound in buat last monday. my cd compilation, most of them are only installers. my fave princess aurora.

carpet that i bought in sg wang. the pink panther slippers that i got free from watsons for spending more than rm100.

peterpan's concert tix!. paper bought in MMU. collections of magnets.

my make up purse i got in OU. box that i got from mom to keep our rings.

a frame i made for mr3003 in year 2002. swensen's napkin was from our first date in'93. bottom pics on the right is the last nite we lepaked b4 he left for Perth. the rest he jadi my model for assignments. post it notes on the right are those he wrote while waiting for me at my place. a pic of him with beanie and the letter that he gave together with beanie. top right is the letter he gave in '96 and it was the first time he called me Asha.

our calendar.. to remind him.. coz he kept forgeting the dates..!

folders that i just made to simpan our nikah forms.

thats beanie with my skool bag.. and files

hehe

background

what do u think of my new background?

prefer the old one?

help! thanks! :)

and tell me what do u think of my friendster page as well...

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announcement :

ehhheemm eheemm..

mrs ArdJai is 7weeks pregnant!!
hehe.. CONGRATS from [awan_purple] and mr3003..

wishing u happiness, well and the best for u and baby... :) ohh and of coz, to abang ipar as well..

lil ali imran or adlin junita!! hehe

/actually i was the 3rd person to know.. but simpan2 first la kan... biar ibu mengandung itu habis habaq suma org.. then baru nak i bukak citer... hihihih

love!

wey, we all plak... baby tu nak panggil apa? mummy sha and daddy min? heheeh

1st survey here

1.Are you good at hiding your feelings?
nope... u'll know that im happy, sad... i will just show.. but i wont tell.. hehe

2.How can we tell that you're already irritated?
when i dun even wanna see ur face... play with my fone... or bust jadi bitchy towards u..

3.How do you treat the person that doesn't like you?
the same way she/he treats me.. kalau cam bangsat jer, then cam bangsat la dier dapat balik...

4.What usually ruins your mood?
rude motherfuckers, gedik tahap cannot control dah, kiasu and ckp besar tapi kosong, merajuk2 cam budak sekolah, blaming me for things i didnt do, accusing me with stupid facts and selfish ppl.. yeah, im selfish too.. i think everyone is.. tapi jgn la sampai tak kisah lansung bout others..

5.Who do you see everyday that you wish you just wouldn't at all?
skan dah takde dah... used to be my classmates..

6. When was the last time that you had a good cry?
yesterday... and last nite pun la.. nak kira a good cry tak gak la...

7. How often do you shop for clothes?
b4 raya... :) so baju suma mmg borong byk2... and pakai tu jer la for the whole year.. kalau cam rajin or nampak sumthing yg suka then beli la.. i dun shop often lansung.. maybe ni akan tukar once i start working..

8. Who's your long-time crush?
amin masa zaman sekolah2 dulu... tak habis2 ngan amin... kalau org lain tgk pun sure bosan kan!
9. Someone you just had a crush on?
eehh... mana ada.. hmm hmm.. :P

10. Do you have something that you wish you just don't?
this thyroid problem.. nuthing that i [or anyone else] can do bout it.. well to makan ubat jer la everyday.. to hilangkan.. takde la.. :(

11. Do you sometimes crave for something that isn't there?
nope... how leh nak crave?

12. Do you wish to live in a faraway land where nobody knows you?
nanti laa... when/if my life makin teruk.. where i can start a new life..

13. Have you kissed a total stranger?
nope

14. What do you want to do at this very moment?
i want to sleep... banyak giler kerja nak wat esok..

15. The worst feeling?
the one that im having... mix ngan suma feeling.. sampai dah tak tau nak rasa apa... cam super stone..

16. How about the best?
yeah i agree with u jess, having at least someone who truly cares bout me...

17. Ever given your number to someone you dislike?
skang dah takde la...

18.What will you say to the one reading this right now?
hmmm... buat kerja! nak suruh buat survey sure tak nak...

19. What/Who do you need right now?
lots lots of cash!!

20. Happy with ur life?
hahaha... i dont know... i want to say i am, tapi.. i want to say im not, but happy gak nih...

pretty

check out

[prettypeektures.fotopages.com]

heheh im so happy!!

Ads bday

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY AD!!

hello.... assalamualaikum.. :) hehe.. tak jawab, dosa..

ok lets start with last Friday punyer citer.. :)

Last Friday was Ad's 25th Birthday... wanted to suprise her... tapi bleh tahan menjadi gak la.. bravo Fat.. hehe.. padahal mula2 she pun save my ass gak, coz she had to work on that day.. so it was me who called up the rest of the gang to inform.. and make sure that they come. everyone was excited bout the birthday dinner since lama gal tak jumpa. :)

i went to class as usual. an hour late. who cares, at least pegi kan? went to my grandma's and picked Ieza up at her place. went to The Curve and Ikano to find present for Ad. [thanks to my baby for the $$ hehe] tak ronda byk pun, tak pening kepala pun to find her a present.. Ieza is one good person to bring biler nak cari present. hehe.. dier ikut jer and memberi byk idea. since im not good deciding... she la yg tolong bagi sbb y shud pilih i got for Ad...

we then balik to Mr3003's place and wait for Ad... this time around, my credit pun dah abis.. i dunno wats going on with the rest of the gang... will they come or not.. Pat pun tak tau gak what time she'll be there... and sabar jer la Pat tu, aku pun ko nak suprise ah? hihih

Par, Jai and Fara sampai to Penang Village around 7:30pm. while time tu, we all kat umah tgh siap2 lagi.. muahahah.. kata nak suprise kan? we got there around.. hmm almost 8:30pm. Ad suprise tak? hehehe.. i was suprised to see Pat, Jai and Fara yg dah sampai.. pastu Ina and Wala came... mak aihh... datang gak they all nih... alhamdulillah... and then i got a call from Eera saying that she pun akan datang... PERGHHH!!! cantek..!! and then another call from mr3003 yg he dah abis with work and nak mai join... perghhh mmg best! ingat suma nak cancel plan... tapi last2 jadi bday dinner yg best.. suma dtg... except for mr.Tfy jer and mr.One...

We started off ngan bg present... hubby Jai la kasi dulu... then its me and Ieza.. Pat mmg kiasu Save my ass dah kasi awal2... babe, lain kali jgn amik present... suruh dier sabar sampai the actual DATE... hahaha.. pastu Ina came with our official birthday cake.. Secret Recipe's Cheezy Choc! We makan makan... and potong cake laks... Ad tried to jadi kedekut with her bday cake.. but cannot la girl... WE can never lawan Pat on that... hehehe.. Pat mmg nak cake tu sorang jer... tapi dier pau orang punya cake... Perghhhhhhhh!!! mr3003 pun sama laks tu... ceshh...!

like the last time we went there, sampai kena halau ngan Penang Village tu... hehe we decided to pegi main bowling.. but Ieza kena balik dulu to get her coupons... mr3003 went back to change and promised to jumpa kat LRT Taman Bahagia. lama btul tunggu dier kat situ... ! sempat la gak we all gi tuang minyak [thanks everyone tong2] then amik2 gambar kat situ... :)

mr3003 came and we all terus duushh ker Mid Valley Cosmic Bowl... sepatutnya ada that "Glow In the Dark" thingy... tapi hampeh..! I had Fun... first throw dah dapat Strike..! acehhh... tapi second round kalah gak ngan Pat... mmg kelakar la... best giler babs main bowling nih... :) mcm2 stunt bleh nampak... stunt Jai jatuh bola cam nak pecah lantai pun ada... mr3003 buat slide ker hapa ntah... style longkang all the way pun ada... style romatic oleh Ieza pun ada, tapi suma kena tu!! hehe.. and style paling best di penghujung rancangan was Pats la..!! hahahahah... nak citer pun i segan la.... masa she nak baling bola kan, we all kat blakang cheer and she jatuh...!! dalam lane.... ! tak pernah di buat orang... pastu nak tolong angkat, dier cam syiok la plak kat situ... ala ala swimming ker hapa...

pergi teh tarik la pulak kat Mosin... perghh... makan taj mahal ? eh mumtaz...? hehehehe [aku pun confuse takleh ingat nih].. by this time dah 3am.. borak2... and balik la.. dah penat dah masa tu.... ngantuk lagi...

apa apa hal... we had fun... thanks to those yg datang join... :)
enjoy the pics!

[birthday girl]

[cheesy choc]

[lrt taman bahagia]

[mr3003]

[pat]

[ad]

[jai]

[ieza]

[wala]

[the gals]

[all of us]

[more pics]

anniverary

HAPPY 7TH ANNIVERSARY SAYANG!

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why was i so sibuk with the NINETY ONE days kan?

padahal... its exactly THREE more months!!

yeahhh byk sgt la tak nak count the days... heheh... i only realized biler baca date hari nih.. 06-03-06

and 2 days from now... will be our 7 years together... :)

woww!! wait, Alhamdulillah...